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If thereâs one big takeaway from the most successful AI case studies weâve found over the past few months, itâs that they donât waste time obsessing over what tech-stack they use. Instead, theyâre the ones who take a step back to think strategically about how they get work done, and do so as a habitual and non-negotiable part of their job.
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P.s. More action awaits you in our archives, including how Steve Jobs cultivated great taste, the personality trait shared by 1381 millionaires, and the study that revealed what successful founders, scientists, and terrorists, have in common.
Beware of many-sided mediocrity
If youâre not in the tech world, you may know Peter Thiel as the guy who went viral in June after he hesitated to answer a question about the future of the human race. But he is better known in the technosphere as the leader of Founders Fund, one of the most successful venture capital firms of all time.
Mario Gabriele at The Generalist recently spent 18 months studying Founders Fund, interviewing over a dozen key figures, and conducting extensive data analysis, to find out what has made them so successful.
One question he posed to the team at Founders Fund was: what is the biggest lesson you have learned from working with Peter?
As Mario tells it, "Almost everyone who I asked at Founders Fund, 'what are the lessons you got from Peter?' Almost always the biggest one was like, 'find your comparative advantage and then specifically make sure to do that to the maximum. Take out everything else and just lean on your strengths as much as you humanly can.ââ
Find your strengths, lean on them to the max, thatâs the secret sauce.
As Thiel himself once wrote, âInstead of pursuing âmany-sided mediocrityâ and calling it well-roundedness, a definitive person determines the one best thing to do and then does it."
If your weaknesses are all you pay attention to then âmany-sided mediocrityâ may be all you ever accomplish.
And this is one thing that both Oprah Winfrey and Thiel can agree onâŠ
Think in terms of trait-market fit
At just three years of age, Oprah Winfrey was already interviewing her dolls and the crows on her grandmotherâs fence.
By sixteen, she landed her first job reporting the news.
In her early thirties, her talk show won two Daytime Emmy Awards.
Her story seems like it was written in the stars by destiny itself.
But this narrative, while it sounds clean, is misleading.
At first, reporting the news really was just a job for Winfrey, not some magical calling, and it was a job that Winfrey herself admitted she was ill-suited for in a commencement speech for Colorado College in 2019:
âI got my first job in radio at 16, got on tv at 19, and every day I said âI donât know if this is what Iâm really supposed to be doing.â But my father was like: âYou better keep that job!â At 28, it wasnât working out on the news because I was too emotional. I would cry while interviewing someone who had lost their home.â
So letâs get this straight: for the first 13 years of Oprah Winfreyâs professional career, she (1) wasnât sure if TV was the thing she was supposed to be doing, (2) kept the job because of the pay and stability, and (3) was being told she had a weakness that meant she wasnât good at her job.
In light of that feedback, what would most people do?
I think many of us would be tempted to iron out the weakness, right? To dampen our emotions and become a more serious news anchor. Itâs not clear whether Winfrey failed or simply wasnât interested in âfixingâ her weakness, but she was certainly disheartened when her producers axed her position as a resultâŠ
âI was told that I was going to be talking on the evening news and put on a talk show, and that was a demotion for me at the time,â Winfrey recalls.
But that so-called demotion turned out to be one of the best career moves in history. All of that emotion that supposedly got in the way of the news? The talk show audiences went crazy for it. Within four years of the showâs national launch, The Oprah Winfrey Show was routinely attracting 15â20âŻmillion viewers a day.
Emotion was no longer a weakness, it was a strength, a superpower.
The truth is that we donât have strengths and weaknesses for the most part. We have traits. These traits can either become strengths or weaknesses based on the environment in which we express them. Imagine where Oprah Winfrey would be today if she continued trying to build a career by getting rid of her emotions?
The trick is to identify what makes you, you, and then go find a game to play where your youness will be an asset instead of a hindrance.
This doesnât mean you canât change or that you shouldnât work on your flaws. It just means that figuring out the arena in which your natural attributes have the greatest odds of shining is always the much higher leverage opportunity available to you.
This is much harder to do than it looks, but even more effective than it seems, as one of the internetâs most successful content creators explainsâŠ
What is easy
Chelsea Anderson is the self-proclaimed âMichael Jordan of babysitting.â
Since posting her first Instagram reel in November 2024, her account has amassed 960,000 followers. She will almost certainly end up going from 0 â 1 million in less than a year.
In of her recent reels, Anderson revealed how she was able to achieve such rapid growth: âMy mom used to always talk about how we value the least the things that we are very good at and that come easily to us, and we value the most the things that are hard for us, that we can't do. And because of that, we tend to really strive to get better at the things we're bad at, because we think those things are so valuable, and sometimes we don't even think to try to cash in on the things that are easy for us.â
When Chelsea decided she wanted to become a content creator, she thought about her Momâs advice. âSo when I set out to be a content creator, I said to myself, âOkay, what do I want to do? I want to make content. Great. What do I want it to be about? I don't know! I just know I want to be able to do a lot of it and I want it to be easy for me. What am I good at? What comes easy to me? Babysitting. Okay, great. Let me tell some of my babysitting stories. Boom! Six months later, here we are. I have a book deal. I quit my full-time jobââ
Find your strength⊠check.
Lean on it to the max⊠check check.
â[Babysitting] maybe didn't seem super valuable to me at the time when I was making that video,â Anderson reflects, âbut I knew it was easy for me. Which probably means itâs valuable to somebody else, somebody that itâs hard for.â âMaking a lot of money, being successful, it doesnât have to be hard. We just think that because we look at people who did it in a way that would be difficult for us.â
Andersonâs takeaway is simpleâŠ
âTake a look at your life, what is easy for you?â âDouble down on it.â
New project who dis

Shoutout to Louise who recently kicked off a new project with a fresh Dot Grid book.
While the right constraints can be a gift, tackling your creative goals without a steady supply of Action Method tools is like trying to run a marathon in flip-flops, a limitation with only downside!
⊠Letâs partner with them
âOK, butâŠâ, you may protest, âwhat do I do when I need to accomplish something where a weakness is unavoidable?â
Back when Scott Belsky was leading strategy at Adobe, he was asked how the company decides whether to create its own AI models versus relying on those built by others.
âYeah I think for the areas where we are world experts, weâre going to be able to deliver a better end-to-end experience with our own models,â Scott responded. âThe litmus test for my team isâif it's something that we believe we can do better than anyone else in the world, it's our responsibility to do it. However, if it's something that is commoditized, or some other company is definitely going to invest in more and always have something better than we have, like⊠let's partner with them!â
Keep this strategic framework bookmarked in your brain:
If you are or can become exceptional at something, you have a responsibility to do it. But when you require help on something that represents a weakness for you (especially a weakness that is unrealistic or undesirable for you to work on), go team up with people who are already excellent at that thing.
Play to your strengths, partner on your weaknesses. It takes a village to raise a big idea!
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